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Are you considering having sex with a guy, but wondering if that means he won’t want to have a real relationship with you if you have sex too soon? If so, this article is for you. In today’s world, it’s not easy for a woman to know if men think sex means relationship, or if waiting for sex is the better course for a woman who’s interested in something more.
In the old days, pre-marital sex was a no-no
Just a couple of generations ago, “nice” girls did not have sex with a guy before marriage, so it was a given that sex went along only with a deeper relationship. These days, with birth control having taken away the risk of premature pregnancy, couples have to decide for themselves when to begin having sex. In some ways, this is a change for the better since fewer couples are getting married just for the sex.
How to read his intentions
Because sex before marriage is no longer taboo, modern men are not likely to equate sex with lasting relationships. It’s up to the woman to figure out just what a guy’s intentions are when she is deciding whether to make him wait for sex or not. It’s not really very hard to tell.
If a man spends time courting you – asking you out, flirting with you, calling you frequently – it’s a good bet he’s interested in a real relationship, not just casual sex. If, on the other hand, he calls you infrequently and late at night, he probably sees you as a “friend with benefits” and is not interested in anything further.
Keep him guessing
If you have your eye on a guy and want to turn him into a boyfriend, it is generally a good idea to make him wait before you agree to go to bed with him. While it may be true that some men think sex means relationship, most of today’s men don’t. Making him wait will help you to determine his true intentions and know if a relationship with him is worth pursuing.
Do Men Think Sex Means a Relationship? How to Test His Intentions
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