Boston,
I cannot get my girlfriend pregnant. She wants a baby more than anything and I feel useless because it is just not happening. A doctor has checked us out and there seems to be no real reasons why we cannot do it. I love her so much and am afraid I am going to lose her, as having kids has always been her dream. What am I going to do I feel she may leave me for someone who can get her pregnant?
This is a horrible situation as for many women finding the right guy and having a family is still a top priority. The despair your girlfriend would be feeling as she tries to come to terms with the fact that she may never have children would be very hard for you to deal with. Constant negative pregnancy tests only add to her disillusionment. Once a couple make the commitment to start a family they are usually elated and very happy. Not being able to conceive puts an incredible strain on a relationship as they wonder why all their friends are getting pregnant and they are not.
If you have been through fertility treatments that have not worked you may begin to feel it is time to give up. That is the time to look at your options. Drugs and procedures do not always cure infertility problems and their side effects like multiple births need consideration.
As her partner you feel helpless and possibly nothing you do can make your girlfriend feel better. Her whole life she probably dreamed of the day she would meet a guy like you settle down and have a couple of kids. This was her life plan. How do you compensate for her losing that dream? Perhaps you are reading this article and wondering what else you could do?
Consider this. Before modern medicine how did women who had an infertility problem get pregnant? They did not have all the treatments and drugs of today to help them conceive so they had to use natural methods. Today in the year two thousand and ten a lot of women who have been trying sometimes for years are going back to techniques of the past to finally have a baby.
For thousands of years the Chinese healers have been curing infertility with techniques like Acupuncture and Acupressure. Chinese herbal medicine is also another factor in the healing process of infertility problems such as endometriosis and ovarian cysts. Diet, exercise and a positive mental attitude all come together to help women have healthy babies. Simple as it sounds it is a recipe for success. Imagine finally seeing your girlfriend happy as her dream of getting pregnant comes true.
You are a loving partner who watches your girlfriend cry herself to sleep because she feels somehow she has failed. How would you like to tell her that she could be pregnant within two month? She may think you have lost your mind but I bet she will be curious enough to find out how.
I Can"t Get My Girlfriend Pregnant and it is Tearing Me Apart!
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